Well, don’t know if this will help anyone, or why I’m even posting this but I’ll give some specifics as to why I hate myself. In no particular order….Society, television, movies, magazines books, social media….you all hear “Oh he’s so short, I like taller guys” I’m 5’6 btw…..so how is that supposed to make someone feel? It’s like if you are not X height than you are not a real man, you don’t measure up..
Secondly…”Penis size matters, if he’s not this size, then he’s not a real man and I want nothing to do with him” Well I’ lucky if i’m a full 5″ fully erect. Unerect it’s like a frightened turtle…Ya know on Seinfeld “I was in the pool?!” Third …My hands are small — And you know how they got on Trump about that? Well, my hands are smaller. My feet are small. My teeth could be a little better in alignment and whiter. I’m mean and nasty and boring, no fun to be around. I’m a cynical downer…negative all the time wishing everyone gets their karma….I’m vengeful…I’m 47 almost 48 still live with mom….so all those statements…Dunno what to say more right now.
I have a significant other, but not for long as we are drifting apart and fast…
I Have a small business (Lawn & Property) saved some money….Traded the stock market lost alot after my friend died…My ONLY friend from childhood.. chronic alcohol use killed him. No friends, avoid the neighbors, social anxiety, hate new things, no interest in life….Don’t I sound like a blast!
I think it’ll do good to start by saying that everyone has something they’re self-conscious about—and often, others aren’t even paying attention to them. But we’re conditioned to think that everyone’s watching our every move and judging us even when they aren’t. For example, I don’t think twice about another person’s height. I care more about someone’s personality and what they have control over, as do most people I know! That said, it’s normal and okay to have insecurities. But it’s important you do what you can to build your self-confidence and love yourself for who you are. The sooner you do so, the sooner other people will too.
I found a couple of articles that will hopefully help with self-confidence, grief, and social anxiety. There are a lot of other blogs on our site that cover relevant topics as well, doing some digging might help!